Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Courage?


Dear Blog Reader:

I hope that this finds you doing well. It leaves my hands in quiet consternation. Last week, I  experienced an incident that has left a sour taste in my mouth. I usually try to exercise forebearance and let such things pass without notice or comment. I know what you are saying, "what about your endless rantings about assassin deer?" Yes, I do tend to go on about them, but I never mention various hangnails, hemorrhoids, or impolite fellow travelers on the way to and from work. On the whole, the "ranting cross" that you have to bear from "You Said What?" is less than say in the Huffington Post or on Fox News.

For those of you who live in central Indiana, congratulations for surviving the blizzard of 2012. For those who were spared nature's wrath by living elsewhere, you can make a donation with a grateful heart to the Red Cross for those who suffered from any number of tragic events from the past year, but certainly not for the little more than snow flurries that came through central Indiana last Wednesday. Blizzard smizzard!

I am used to the weather people exploiting a little bit of inclement precipitation to pump up their ratings. This is especially true since there are no election season ad monies flowing. One has to find a way to make up for the largess of campaign donations. Tight skirts and tastefully low cut tops do not ratings make. Actually, they do make ratings but not as quickly as good old fashioned blizzard warnings. I have often thought that the weather person was in cahoots with the National French Toast Association. They used to be able to drive the sale of milk, bread, and eggs with a gentle winter storm warning. But like junkies that need more and more of our medication of choice, we don't respond to winter storm warnings any longer. Bread and milk were perishing on the shelves. Something had to be done; viola a blizzard warning.

No, I expect the weather people to overreact. It is in their best interests. I am disappointed in my fellow man and woman. They showed no sense of perspective or self reliance. At my place of employment, one half of the people scheduled to work last Wednesday did not report for work in anticipation of bad weather. Of the half that did report, 80% got scared and went home at noon. One person literally came to my office and said "I just saw the Homeland Security road warning map. I am too scared to stay here for the rest of the day." How did we turn into such a herd of sissies?

In the past, I may have taken a paragraph to say if you were scared or felt nervous and needed to go home, I meant no offense. I am sorry.  Not this time though, I hope you are offended. That was a nothing snow; a snow easily overcome with a bit of level headedness and patience. We live at a time when machines, if used properly, can clean twenty inch Saturday evening snowfalls in time for a noon kickoff for a Sunday wildcard game. I have seen it done. The ironic thing is that the flight instinct actually put those people who left early in greater jeopardy. They left when the snow was still falling and near the apex of the total. Snow plows had not moved yet, and the salt had not started to melt the roadways. I pushed four nervous people out of their parking spots so they could head out and place themselves in peril. After pushing them out, I went back inside and worked until 5:00. I went out to my car and drove out of a partially plowed lot and home on mostly plowed streets. In fact, my evening commute only took an additional 10 minutes.

How did we get a place where a group of bureaucrats can herd us along into greater jeopardy with a stupid PowerPoint slide and some color coded graphics? I have pondered that question all week long. It struck me that we have not taught our populace to be courageous. I didn't think that was possible. Courage was one of the major virtues that many great civilizations were built on. Wasn't it? Wouldn’t we teach our population the major things? I remember that the school that my kids attended had a "Character Counts" curriculum. It had convocations, awards, ribbons, and handouts. Surely, they taught that most important of character traits; courage. The Wizard of Oz paid homage to this trait by embarrassing sissies with the cowardly lion. However, our schools do not.

I checked with my daughter and she rattled the important character traits off in rapid fire; trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, citizenship. How could the omit courage? Can trustworthiness keep you from full-fledged panic?  Isn't citizenship just a 4 syllable word for listen to homeland security when it says stay home? Don't use the good sense God gave you to evaluate risk and make appropriate decisions for yourself. You should listen to that person who has their budgetary existence reliant on a regular diet of crisis to keep the public scared. ARGH!

Please understand one other thing. I don't think that courage is doing risky things just to be doing them. It strikes me that courage is recognizing the risk, weighing the cost and proceeding in the hope that one can recover from the consequences. The lack of belief, that recovery from failure is an important part of life, has left us in fear. The belief that we are stuck in the latest failure paralyzes our ability to act, to move forward. Courage has a resilience to it; a belief that the current hard times do not define you. The current hard times can shape a response that will move a person beyond that point of defeat.

We cannot avoid the hard times. Maybe one person in a million can be lucky enough to have all of the precautions they can take work out for them. We might surround ourselves with antimicrobial soaps, never drive on snow days, never eat yogurt past its expiration date and except for that one person, those plans will fall short. Isn't it better to have a plan to recover?

Dan Rather used to sign-off every newscast by looking somberly into the camera and saying "courage."  I think that I will sign off with "Oh come on!" And . . .

Take care.

Roger

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