My Brush with the Academy

Dear Blog Reader

I hope that this finds you doing well. I am fine. I know that it has been three weeks since I last put my missives in electronic form for the eyes of the world. I have been busy. It is the first time that I have had a three week vacation from writing. I thought that I would have plenty of time to write last week. The lovely Miss Beverly and I spent last weekend with friends at a rental house built into the side of a tall dune in Beverly Shores, Indiana; a scant 200 yards from the shores of Indiana Lake. Yet, the weekend slipped away; time sitting on the beach, time going out to fine dining, time playing games in front of a fire place as the temps outside fell quickly during the evening.

Thankfully, people looked at their calendar instead of their thermometers when making decisions about how to spend this weekend before the day we pause to pay homage to the Capitol of Ohio. By not paying attention to the thermometer, we were left with a wide open beach and balmy 75 degree weather. It wasn’t warm enough for swimming but I wasn’t going to do that at any temp below 90.

We certainly have pushed the first frost date of fall around this year. The tree color has suffered but my greens garden has flourished. With the help of a little plastic and some hoops, I may have arugula for Thanksgiving. I look forward to it. It was close; this race with Jack Frost.

Each fall, the lovely Miss Beverly and I play a game of chicken with the first frost. Every year on August 1, we plant 500 sunflowers and sit back to see who will blink first. The sunflowers are a 75 day variety, but they seem to sense that time is short and usually get the job done in the 61 days allotted. With frost coming nearly two weeks later than usual this year, the sunflowers came, saw and even produced nice seed heads for winter aviary consumption.

While the sunflower frost chicken game was uneventful, the fall has not been without high drama in the garden. We have been too busy to bring in basil and cilantro. Bev makes a great curry sauce with basil, cilantro, garlic, onions, and cumin. She uses it in a couple of yummy dishes. The recipe calls for copious amounts of basil and cilantro. I had planted a couple of rows late in August. It had not grown very fast with all of the dry weather. It was getting close but so was the frost. I thought that we were sunk on Wednesday morning. The frost wasn’t on the pumpkin but this far out from the big city heat sink the frost was on the top of my car as I left for work. Thankfully, the frost didn’t make it all of the way to the ground. A trepidation filled trip out to the garden after work showed that we had barely been spared. So it was out with a knife and a plastic bag for some harvesting. An afternoon of hard work later the lovely Miss Beverly has a winter’s supply of curry sauce safely and a bit ironically in the freezer.

 

In unrelated news, I have had occasion to help with the youth of America’s homework. The reason for this close encounter is complicated and unimportant to the theme of this entry into my blog. So don’t worry about that. Two weeks ago, I came across two assignments that have given me pause. The assignments have been part of packets that were sent home to be completed over the course of a week in an attempt to convince the youth of America to not procrastinate; to show that a little bit of work each night is easier than a last gasp effort on Thursday evening.

The first pause inducing assignment had a man holding up a sign that said the following:

VOTE FOR STEVE JONES FOR MAYOR.

STEVE IS HONEST.
HE IS SMART.
HE HAS LIVED IN THIS TOWN HIS WHOLE LIFE.
STEVE WILL MAKE OUR TOWN SAFE.

Then the youth of America were given a series of statements that they were to agree or disagree with based only on the information provided above.

1. Steve would not make a very good mayor.
2. Steve is the best person for the job.
3. It is important to have lots of money to be mayor.
4. People want to feel safe in their town.
5. Steve does not like the old mayor.

After reading this tripe, it was all that I could do to instruct the youth of America not to respond HTFWIK. There is no information there. It is basically a tweet by someone who may not know anything. Why would the academy try to show that tweeting is a good basis for making informed decisions about anything? Of course, it is the kind of communication that the youth of America know about. However, I thought school’s purpose was to teach us things that we didn’t know.

Steve may not be honest. He may have paid this poor schmuck to tweet out this message for $15. This poor schmuck may not have been a poor schmuck but a local celebrity to which Steve paid $1500 for his endorsement. We don’t know if Steve likes the old mayor or not. He doesn’t call him any names in the post. We haven’t seen if Steve has written any scathing letters to the editor calling the mayor a repugnant, money grubbing, pedophile. There is no opinion expressed about the old mayor. For all we know the old mayor is old and is retiring from his many years of selfless (and low paid) public service. For all we know, Steve may want to give millions of $ to an NFL franchise to move to town, so he can make sure that the city has a suite where he and his cronies can watch the game in comfort.

The thing that gives me the most pause is this is what public life has become; a series of tweets with no depth of thought or analysis to the situation. It is not an indictment of the academy. It is an indictment of a society that chooses to make public discourse a hashtag for solution. An indictment who’s most egregious charge of lazy, shallow discourse was embodied by the picture of the first lady holding up a sign saying #bringbackourgirls. That was a year and a half ago and to date none of the girls kidnapped by Boko Haram have been returned or rescued. Can you imagine the horrors suffered by those girls and their families? Yet we feel like we did something.

The second assignment had the youth of America use their imagination to invent a scary monster that had super powers and would unleash those super powers on a defenseless community. The assignment went out of its way to say that the monster could be humanely trapped and taken away. It would not be killed or harmed in any way. I mean the assignment went way out of its way to communicate this message.

It is a bit ironic that free public education will be replaced by paid psychological sessions where the therapist will help the adult patient kill those old irrational fears that were humanely trapped in the youth of America’s mind many years earlier. Isn’t there a thoughtful way to teach that the scary monsters in our head should be killed, banished, trussed up like the wild nasty vile things that they are and done away with? I can guarantee you that given enough time to grow and ripen they will not go quietly into the night. They will gnaw at the wires of your humane trap and demand to be released because “you are hurting me.”

It isn’t like the youth of America aren’t learning to kill the enemy in HALO, or Assassin’s Creed. There is plenty of killing going on. It just strikes me that the adults want the youth to learn that off by themselves; away from the adults where uncomfortable questions will have to be answered.

In that vacuum of teaching, we let the weeds grow. Not uprooted by critical thinking, those weeds flourish unchecked, choking out the facts and insights that will permit learned, mature development which could someday lead to a race well ran against a “frost” that has no intention of humanely trapping us.

Take care.

Roger

Manifest Destiny's Child

Dear Blog Reader,

I hope that this finds you doing well. I am fine. The world spun on its axis recently and a truth that was beaten out of me has been re-established as true. Once a long time ago, a very long time ago, I was forced by a well-meaning educator to adjust my world view and accept, through a coercive grading regime, what I at the time thought was obviously wrong. We were learning about countries and borders. As any child would notice, I figured out that not all countries are the same size. As any competitive child would have noticed, the USA was larger than the evil Soviet Union. For all of those in your 20’s and younger, the USSR was the country who had the US targeted with their InterContinental Ballistic Missiles. Fairness dictates that I point out that we had our missiles aimed at them. So it wasn’t like we and they were not following the Golden Rule.

Being a second grader, I intuitively knew that size mattered, and that while staring down your nemesis in a game of mutually assured destruction, bigger was better. You could imagine my shock that any teacher could be certified when they could not make the visual spatial comparison of the obvious. The United States of America was larger than the USSR. She was none too pleased that a mere 2^nd grader could so patently show her the error of her ways. I am guessing the Mrs. Gesundheit felt the same kind of inferiority when little Albert Einstein corrected her regarding the relations between energy, mass, and the speed of light.

I was patient. Our country was called the United States of America. The size of North America was bigger than the USSR. Mrs. Torrence told me that North America contained both America and Canada. What? What nincompoop let that happen? It was called North America not North America and Canada. Sure there wasn’t much happening in Canada past the southern 100 miles or so except herds of reindeer. Who knows? In a great conflagration with the evil empire, it may have been the reindeer that turned the tide; releasing a Vixen could have had devastating effects on those Russian commies. Then we could have unleashed Rudolph’s red nose on them and it would have been game over.

I was heartened three years later to find that second grade Roger understood more than he knew when in fifth grade I learned that other great Americans thought that Canada should be annexed through the Monroe doctrine. For those of you saying “huh, the Monroe Doctrine, Manifest Destiny? We didn’t talk about that in school.” I pity you for your lack of education. I suppose that you can have binge watching House of Cards on Netflix as a substitute teacher.

In the end, like Monroe I had to give up the idea of a United States extending from the Rio Grande to Santa’s workshop. It is a shame when the political will expends itself before one’s destiny is fulfilled. Then last weekend 46 years later, I was reading the international news in Flip Board and this headline caught my eye. “Chinese General: “Of course we have the right to build islands in the South China Sea. It has China in its name.” God love his little commie heart. He did not succumb to the strictures of an onerous grading system. He simply had his teacher killed in the Cultural Revolution and suddenly he was getting A’s for such stellar thinking. Rather than bend to the will of his teacher, he broke her and was able to start looking for a really big dredging machine to fulfill his Machiavellian schemes.

I would condemn the Chinese General for being an imperialistic goon, and wag my finger at him and go tsk, tsk, tsk. He should know better. Sure I thought that the United States of America would include all of America. However, I was in second grade. I got over it. He should get over it to. I would condemn his egotistical, center of the universe way of thinking, but then I realized that we all live in glass houses.

It hit home as I was reading another newspaper article recently. In last week’s Indianapolis Star, they were desperate for news. So in the life style section, they had an article answering the age old question “What if James Dean had lived?” Which is a little stupid. Of course he lived. I suppose they meant what if James Dean hadn’t been killed in an automobile accident 60 years ago at the tender age of 24 (not very catchy but more accurate.) The question was posed to a variety of people of no particular importance. It was good to see that a cousin and a high school classmate were asked. At least they knew him, had spent time with him. As a result their hypothesis seemed the most plausible. “He would have continued to make movies,” said one. The other, “I think he would have stayed in show business.” People who knew him thought that he would stay in his world of make believe not a world of make believe of their own design.

But when the same question was posed to those who didn’t know James Dean the person; only knew James Dean the persona, the answers flew off into flights of whimsy. According to some, he would have taken movie roles away from Dennis Hopper in Hoosiers and have been the God Father instead of Marlon Brando. He would have come out of the closet at age 80 “like his good friend Jim Nabors.” A closet, which according to the internet, whose door was not completely shut even in a more circumspect time of the 1950’s. Others thought that he was going to be the next Paul Newman and worry more about race cars than acting as he aged. The oddest prediction was that he would have beaten Ronald Reagan for the Presidency. Of course that would have put him in his early 50’s for the first presidential run. He would have had to put his political career into over drive to go from Rebel Without a Cause to the Oval Office in 25 years.

It intrigued me that when describing James Dean’s destiny, others were merely proposing what they wished to be true. If wishes were horses, beggars would ride. One wisher said that James Dean would have pushed through the Gay Rights Act in 1966 just two years after the Civil Rights act got African Americans off the back of the bus.

Why don’t we realize that destiny is really wishing? Dangerous wishing since manifestations of destiny are wishes of people who have set themselves at the center of the universe and projected their wishes out to the ends of time and imposed them on all of God’s lessers.

To know the design of the world is a practice we all participate in. However, it is a game that should be left to 2^nd graders. It just seems safer that way.

Take care.

Roger.

Sweet and Crisp

Dear Blog Reader.

Well we went and did it. We let summer get away from us. You have spent entirely too much time reading this blog and not finding the cure for cancer, or discovering the secrets of teleportation. You could have become a fairly good marathoner for your age group, grown the biggest pumpkin at the state fair, or hiked the Appalachian Trail. However, you have chosen to fill your time reading this blog. You might as well validate the decision and become a follower of this blog. Go ahead and hit the button to the right and declare to the world that you would rather be entertained with odd ball observations of life. You will join the ranks of the thirty other followers of “You Said What, Roger?”

Summer was rolling along without any problems; highs in the 90’s, lows in the 70’s. Suddenly, it rains, and we have to go scampering for the sweat shirts and jackets. I hope that you were blessed with a found $5 bill or $20 bill that was abandoned one day last March or April. Aren’t those the best? It makes you wish that you had a 90 degree day so you could go to the ice cream shop for a double flavor of the day in a waffle cone. So you decide to leave that $5 bill in the pocket and wait until that first warm day of spring when you will go out and get yourself a cone.

Yes, we have turned the corner. We are headed towards fall. The days are shorter but at least there exist honey crisp apples. I sometimes wonder it honey crisps are God’s way of distracting us from the shortened days.

“Oh no the days are getting short. I am moments away from seasonal affective disorder.”

“HERE HAVE A HONEY CRISP APPLE. EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY.”

“Oh my gosh that is so crisp and good. I love these apples. What are they called?”

“HONEY CRISP. THEY ARE GOOD. AREN’T THEY? WE ARE PARTICULARLY PROUD OF THOSE. THEY ARE THE PERFECT BLEND OF SWEET AND CRISPY.”

“Yeah, what was I worried about? OMG, these are good apples.”

“THANK YOU. IT IS NICE OF YOU TO SAY.”

Why is it that so many bible stories center around apples and distraction?

Last weekend, we had a wonderful opportunity to spend time with family friends whose young daughter tied the knot. It was even more fun because yours truly was invited to help cut up watermelon for the reception. I quickly harkened back to our wedding reception. While cutting up the thirty watermelons, the lovely Miss Beverly and I realized that we must have given away a ton of watermelons at our wedding. I had shared my misgivings with the father of the bride when informed that a mere 30 were purchased for 275 people. As recollected in a recent blog, the Lovely Miss Beverly and I had 100 melons for 300 people. After this most recent watermelon endeavor we still had seven melons left. So using the same proportions, we probably gave 65 melons away to well-wishers.

The ceremony was beautiful. The vows were beautiful. It is always interesting to see the things that the young put into their vows. Love is young and bold. Promises are made. The reception was fun. As the lovely Miss Beverly and I have matured, we have enjoyed the anniversary dance more and more. It is interesting. The pace of moving the couples off of the dance floor based on marital endurance is leisurely at the beginning. “Those who have been married less than a day, a year, two years, five years, and ten years. Then the deejay panicked, he had 2 minutes left on the song and the dance floor was still crowded with old coots and coot-ettes, enjoying the strands of “Stand by Me” and dancing really close. In an effort to clear out the love birds, the countdown jumped to 35 years, then on to 45 and finally fifty. What’s the big hurry? Skipping through those tough years, it was like someone had put banana peels on our walkers and we were sliding right off the dance floor.

 We were down to the final two couples; grandparents of the bride and grandparents of the groom. Then there was one. The grandparents of the bride had been together for more than sixty years. That was amazing. We are barely half way there. I cannot imagine how well I will get to know this lovely in 30 more years. Who knows? We may find a way to short circuit the fight that we have where I don’t include the Lovely Miss Beverly in decisions about the farm. We may come to some agreement about living on the farm or moving to town in a smaller house.

The hurried pace of clearing out the enduring couples gave me pause. Did we make the young folks uncomfortable? Were we unattractive? I am sure that I didn’t mind giving short shrift to the old fogies when the lovely Miss Beverly and I tied the knot. We were just paying lip service to the old ones. Thankful that they had contributed to the towel and toaster fund, let’s get on to more fun things. Now I see that they had tried to provide much more. We put up with firm handshakes from uncles and hugs from aunts. But from this side maybe I should have thought to ask are these vows too much or do they ring a little empty. What was that “as gold refined by fire so our love will be tested and made more pure?” I am sure that Nanny or Aunty Mid would have encouraged use to ask for a little less fire and a few more cool iced teas on the porch.

How much would we learn by giving those married for fifty years the microphone and asking a few pointed questions? How do you make it work? What happens when she won’t help with the housework? What do you do when he wants to change you? You thought you were fine while you were dating. How do you recover from the personal tragedy of a miscarriage, a sick or dying child? How can you stand that he is a worrier about everything? How did you ever get her to save for any rainy day? I hear that she was quite the spender back in the day. What caused you to lose faith in him? How did you rebuild your faith in her?

Certainly, you wouldn’t want to ask all of the old ones out on the floor after 40 years. Some of us don’t age well. Some of us turn moldy and rotten instead of gaining a rich patina of age and maturity. They are easy to see and easier to ignore. The others? You would think that they would have good advice to give if asked.

What would the answers be? “Of course we were too young. We just held on. I looked at myself and changed the parts that would make me a more loving person. I let her wash her own cloths and dishes. Those were hard times. I am not sure how we made it through them. We were just both so sad. His worrying prepared us for some things that allowed us to spend all of that money on your wedding present dear. He made some pretty dumb decisions. I decided that I liked her once. Those things were still there. I decided to like her again.”

“I promise the world to you my love. Will you love me back?”

“HERE HAVE A LOOK AT THIS LONG LONG MARRIAGE. IT MAY HAVE BEEN TOUGH BUT LOOK AT HOW SWEET AND CRISP IT IS.”

“Oh my gosh! that is so good. They have ripened well. How did they do that?”

“OH THEY WERE MARRIED. IT IS GOOD ISN’T IT? WE ARE PARTICULARLY PROUD OF THOSE. THEY ARE THE PERFECT BLEND OF MATURE AND GIDDY.”

“Yeah, what was I worried about? OMG, a good marriage is possible.”

“THANK YOU. IT IS NICE OF YOU TO SAY.”

Take care.

Roger

Sweet and Crisp

Dear Blog Reader.

Well we went and did it. We let summer get away from us. You have spent entirely too much time reading this blog and not finding the cure for cancer, or discovering the secrets of teleportation. You could have become a fairly good marathoner for your age group, grown the biggest pumpkin at the state fair, or hiked the Appalachian Trail. However, you have chosen to fill your time reading this blog. You might as well validate the decision and become a follower of this blog. Go ahead and hit the button to the right and declare to the world that you would rather be entertained with odd ball observations of life. You will join the ranks of the thirty other followers of “You Said What, Roger?”

Summer was rolling along without any problems; highs in the 90’s, lows in the 70’s. Suddenly, it rains, and we have to go scampering for the sweat shirts and jackets. I hope that you were blessed with a found $5 bill or $20 bill that was abandoned one day last March or April. Aren’t those the best? It makes you wish that you had a 90 degree day so you could go to the ice cream shop for a double flavor of the day in a waffle cone. So you decide to leave that $5 bill in the pocket and wait until that first warm day of spring when you will go out and get yourself a cone.

Yes, we have turned the corner. We are headed towards fall. The days are shorter but at least there exist honey crisp apples. I sometimes wonder it honey crisps are God’s way of distracting us from the shortened days.

“Oh no the days are getting short. I am moments away from seasonal affective disorder.”

“HERE HAVE A HONEY CRISP APPLE. EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY.”

“Oh my gosh that is so crisp and good. I love these apples. What are they called?”

“HONEY CRISP. THEY ARE GOOD. AREN’T THEY? WE ARE PARTICULARLY PROUD OF THOSE. THEY ARE THE PERFECT BLEND OF SWEET AND CRISPY.”

“Yeah, what was I worried about? OMG, these are good apples.”

“THANK YOU. IT IS NICE OF YOU TO SAY.”

Why is it that so many bible stories center around apples and distraction?

Last weekend, we had a wonderful opportunity to spend time with family friends whose young daughter tied the knot. It was even more fun because yours truly was invited to help cut up watermelon for the reception. I quickly harkened back to our wedding reception. While cutting up the thirty watermelons, the lovely Miss Beverly and I realized that we must have given away a ton of watermelons at our wedding. I had shared my misgivings with the father of the bride when informed that a mere 30 were purchased for 275 people. As recollected in a recent blog, the Lovely Miss Beverly and I had 100 melons for 300 people. After this most recent watermelon endeavor we still had seven melons left. So using the same proportions, we probably gave 65 melons away to well-wishers.

The ceremony was beautiful. The vows were beautiful. It is always interesting to see the things that the young put into their vows. Love is young and bold. Promises are made. The reception was fun. As the lovely Miss Beverly and I have matured, we have enjoyed the anniversary dance more and more. It is interesting. The pace of moving the couples off of the dance floor based on marital endurance is leisurely at the beginning. “Those who have been married less than a day, a year, two years, five years, and ten years. Then the deejay panicked, he had 2 minutes left on the song and the dance floor was still crowded with old coots and coot-ettes, enjoying the strands of “Stand by Me” and dancing really close. In an effort to clear out the love birds, the countdown jumped to 35 years, then on to 45 and finally fifty. What’s the big hurry? Skipping through those tough years, it was like someone had put banana peels on our walkers and we were sliding right off the dance floor.

 We were down to the final two couples; grandparents of the bride and grandparents of the groom. Then there was one. The grandparents of the bride had been together for more than sixty years. That was amazing. We are barely half way there. I cannot imagine how well I will get to know this lovely in 30 more years. Who knows? We may find a way to short circuit the fight that we have where I don’t include the Lovely Miss Beverly in decisions about the farm. We may come to some agreement about living on the farm or moving to town in a smaller house.

The hurried pace of clearing out the enduring couples gave me pause. Did we make the young folks uncomfortable? Were we unattractive? I am sure that I didn’t mind giving short shrift to the old fogies when the lovely Miss Beverly and I tied the knot. We were just paying lip service to the old ones. Thankful that they had contributed to the towel and toaster fund, let’s get on to more fun things. Now I see that they had tried to provide much more. We put up with firm handshakes from uncles and hugs from aunts. But from this side maybe I should have thought to ask are these vows too much or do they ring a little empty. What was that “as gold refined by fire so our love will be tested and made more pure?” I am sure that Nanny or Aunty Mid would have encouraged use to ask for a little less fire and a few more cool iced teas on the porch.

How much would we learn by giving those married for fifty years the microphone and asking a few pointed questions? How do you make it work? What happens when she won’t help with the housework? What do you do when he wants to change you? You thought you were fine while you were dating. How do you recover from the personal tragedy of a miscarriage, a sick or dying child? How can you stand that he is a worrier about everything? How did you ever get her to save for any rainy day? I hear that she was quite the spender back in the day. What caused you to lose faith in him? How did you rebuild your faith in her?

Certainly, you wouldn’t want to ask all of the old ones out on the floor after 40 years. Some of us don’t age well. Some of us turn moldy and rotten instead of gaining a rich patina of age and maturity. They are easy to see and easier to ignore. The others? You would think that they would have good advice to give if asked.

What would the answers be? “Of course we were too young. We just held on. I looked at myself and changed the parts that would make me a more loving person. I let her wash her own cloths and dishes. Those were hard times. I am not sure how we made it through them. We were just both so sad. His worrying prepared us for some things that allowed us to spend all of that money on your wedding present dear. He made some pretty dumb decisions. I decided that I liked her once. Those things were still there. I decided to like her again.”

“I promise the world to you my love. Will you love me back?”

“HERE HAVE A LOOK AT THIS LONG LONG MARRIAGE. IT MAY HAVE BEEN TOUGH BUT LOOK AT HOW SWEET AND CRISP IT IS.”

“Oh my gosh! that is so good. They have ripened well. How did they do that?”

“OH THEY WERE MARRIED. IT IS GOOD ISN’T IT? WE ARE PARTICULARLY PROUD OF THOSE. THEY ARE THE PERFECT BLEND OF MATURE AND GIDDY.”

“Yeah, what was I worried about? OMG, a good marriage is possible.”

“THANK YOU. IT IS NICE OF YOU TO SAY.”

Take care.

Roger

One, Two, Three, Go?

Dear Blog Reader.           

I hope that this finds you doing well. I am fine. I received quite a surprise two weeks ago. I started writing one blog and another came out. It was a very nice one if I do say so myself. I had intended to write about riding a tandem bike with the lovely Miss Beverly. It might be better to say learning to ride a tandem bike with the lovely Miss Beverly. As I started writing two weeks ago, it had been on my mind.

We had gone on an excursion in southern Indiana the weekend before: 32 miles in hilly Brown County. As we turned our Subaru with our tandem bike in the back, onto the back road leading to our start point, we were faced with a huge downhill followed by an equally daunting uphill. The lovely Miss Beverly said “That’s a reality check.”

Reality before that moment of clarity had been several 8 mile rides on the flats around home. We were game and plucky. We were committed to riding the 32 mile “Nuthugger” route of the Tour de Upland. Yes, that Upland. The little brewery that could in Bloomington Indiana. They were in the vanguard that thought that they could carve out a niche and brew beer better that the big boys. They seem to be very popular and keep expanding the store.

I am afraid to say that they are not good at logistics. In retaliation for the disappointing experience, I am encouraging everyone who goes to their wonderful Bloomington store to take a Subway sandwich with them. Go ahead order your favorite Upland Brew, pull out your cold cut combo special and enjoy. If the wait staff seems indignant, simply respond with two words. Tour de Upland. Or is that three words. It’s so hard to tell when southern Indiana hillbillies mistaken think that they are a distant cousin of the greatest annual biking event in the world. It matters not. Those two or three words will shut them up. I know that it may make little sense to you. But isn’t it better when faced with a complex issue to shout out a couple of words in solidarity with the cheated? I digress.

That’s right. The lovely Miss Beverly and I are gingerly taking baby steps into the world of tandem biking. It fits our styles of riding very well. Actually, it makes allowances for our different styles very well. The Lovely Miss Beverly is all about the event, the rolling hills and trees opening up to grand vistas through a valley, a concert at the end of a long day of cycling, meeting new and interesting people while sharing a meal with them. Her goal for the next RAGBRAI that we participate in is having a roadside stop with free beer each day and asking those who stop one simple question. “How did you learn to ride a bike?”

I am all about the road, the next crank of my pedal, getting up the next hill coasting down the other side. While on RAGBRAI, I saw the following slogan on a jersey. “Who needs a Reason, Just give me a road.” That is me. I have been scouring the internet trying to find that jersey. It is why I don’t mind riding at 5:00 a.m. in the dark. I really don’t need to see very far in front of me to get more road which is what drives me.

So a tandem allows us to pursue these two very different pursuits in close proximity. It keeps us moving forward toward a common goal from two different directions.

Tandem riding has proven pretty challenging. After thirty years of marriage, we could justly be accused of taking certain communication patterns for granted. You can’t do that on a tandem. You have to be very clear. You have to be very clear in advance. You can’t say coasting the same second you decide to stop pedaling. There is nothing more jarring as you get ready to push down hard with your left foot as your partner with the same mechanical advantages had decided to stop. Such actions result in gritting of teeth, saying “I’m sorry”, and pledges to do better next time. The same goes for trying to gut it out a little too long. If you are experiencing discomfort in the nether regions from the bike seat, it is much better to say something than wait for your partner to tell from your body language that pedaling needs to cease immediately so that butt realignment can take place and the pressure be relieved. It won’t take a moment. However, it is impossible for your mate to know. Neither of you can see the other’s face. You are both concentrating on pedaling, the road, and staying upright. ESP does not work.

Tandem riding also is not conducive to meaning something other than what you say. I am bad at this. I confess. A perfect example occurred on Tour de Upland. In our short riding practice, we always start by putting our left feet on the pedals at the bottom of the stroke and taking three quick pushes with our right feet to get enough speed to stay upright as we scramble to get our right feet on the pedal and our butts on the saddle and starting to pedal. “Go on three, one, two, three, up.” I actually have a corollary playing in my head. “Go on three, one, two, three, up, (unless we don’t have enough speed according to my internal gyroscope and then it is four, five, or six. Whatever it takes to meet the gyroscope threshold and then up.)

It appears that the lovely Miss Beverly is a literalist. Go on three means go on three no matter how the laws of gravity will be violated without proper speed. We were struggling up a hill early on in the “Nuthugger.” We had to stop. The start was required on the uphill. As captain, I thought that we could make it (on five or six.) “On three” I said. One, two, three, Bev jumped on the pedals. I held my left foot still at the bottom stroke desperately trying to will the lovely Miss Beverly to turn the page to the obvious corollary. It was not to be. Stuck in some weird physics problem of vector analysis and center of gravity overload, we went down into the side ditch.

Did I say that this was in the first mile of the 32 mile “Nuthugger”? Yes we were not off to a very auspicious start. Maybe getting a tandem wasn’t such a great idea. Maybe, we couldn’t communicate well enough to pull this off. Two head strong people fighting for pedaling superiority. My inner voice flashed to when we picked up the bike after buying it on Craig’s list. “My fiancé and I got this so that we could ride together. She went to law school and we don’t have time to ride anymore.”

The lovely Miss Beverly kindly asked “when’s the wedding?”

After a few awkward moments, the response came, “we’re no longer together.”

It does give one pause. Is our tandem cursed? Did it cause their break up? Will it come between the lovely Miss Beverly and me?” Not to worry. We made it. The lovely Miss Beverly was very gracious to being spilled on her tuffet. We got better as the day went on. We got over walking up the really big hills. And yes go on three really and always means “one, two, three, go.”

As the lovely Miss Beverly and I like to say, the road to a lovely marriage in an interesting journey.

Take care.

Roger

See you soon

Dear blog reader

I hope that this finds you doing well. As my dear father and his many hard living relatives used to lament, I am a bit stoved up. What does stoved up mean? In the Sharritt lexicon of common ailments, it means that you are feeling off of your game. You are a long way away from a debilitating injury but you are going to be limping for a while.  The stoved up markers inclued a face set in grim determination and a slight hunch to there shoulders.

You might ask how is that different from how Sharritts look in their natural happy state. You have seen the old black and white photo, standing out by the garden, the clothsline, the fence by the pasture field screened by a stand of pink and read hollyhocks. Yep, it is a collage of grim faced hunch shoulder folks.  You need one more ingredient for proper stovage. You have to get the Sharrit to concede that they aren't feeling up to snuff.

It appears that my hard riding across Iowa and through Brown County on a tandem with the lovely Miss Beverly has taken a toll on my sciatica nerve on my left leg. It has caused enough distress that I have taken a week off from riding. Yes it is that serious.  I am jonesing get to get on a bike for my daily 18 mile ride.  This too shall pass. I am on the mend.  The numbness in my leg has been chased down to the ball of my foot and on out to my middle three toes.  Any time that I have to give up biking for a week, it is a defacto admission that I am stoved up.

What does one do when they are too stoved up to ride a bike or hoe a garden? The lovely Miss Beverly and I fired up the Subaru and headed to East Lansing, Michigan to visit the lovely Miss Grace and handsome Chris Kozak. It had been too long for me. I had seen plenty of Chris on RAGBRAI. However, I had not seen Grace since May. She had been in Washington DC for an internship. School is almost back in session. She has returned.  The young couple has moved from Ann Arbor where Grace is enrolled in Social Work to East Lansing where Chris is learning to be a lawyer. She will get on a bus and commute daily to Ann Arbor for the fall semester in the opposite direction that Chris commuted daily his first year of law school. It is a complicated life. They seem to navigate it with aplomb.

I like East Lansing more than Ann Arbor. It probably has more do with the fact that the Kozaks will reside there for the next two years. Why spend time falling in love with a town when you are going to leaving soon. Ann Arbor was a very good town to satisfy your culinary desires.  All of that disposable income refreshed each fall by a new crop of freshmen and the restrantuers decended in droves with lots of variety and good food.

East Lansing is no slouch. We ate at a place called Meat. No further explanation is required.  In the evening, we went to the Michigan State ice cream store. Why doesn't Purdue have such an animal; Land Grant School, Dairy Farm, Food Science department, all of the ingredients. Another piece of low hanging fruit when I become a Purdue University Trustee.  I will propose a winning football team and an ice cream shop on campus. I may go down in Trustee history; noted for my foresight and bold plans of action.

I do have a bone to pick with the Michigan State ice cream shop.  They have Illini icing, Hoosier hash, Terrapin Toffee, etc.  I was ready to order the Boilermaker Tracks. I got to the counter and ordered the Boilermaker flavor.  The deer in the headlights behind the counter had no IDEA what I was talking about. What has happened to the quality of higher education when we don't expect underclassmen to know the names and mascots of all of the Big 10, no 11, oops 12, make that a baker's dozen, crap Big 14.  I take that back poor confused coed. It is hard to keep track without a program. However, don't think that I am letting you off of the hook Michigan State. Let's make things consistent; either all school names or all mascots. Don't leave Purdue out there like the answer to some arcane SAT test: Which of these do not belong; wildcats, Illini, Hoosiers, Buckeyes, Terrapins, Cornhuskers, Purdue? Answer: Purdue; it is the only one to offer a higher education.

We rounded out the weekend with a fantastic growers only farmers market and lunch at a fantastic, soon to fail restaurant in a small town up the road: pearls before swine. 

It was a weekend about other things besides seeing Grace and Chris. We were kicking the tires on a new chapter in their life, looking in the nooks and crannies, checking the foundation, letting go. Again.

You all know about that. You are taking kids to college, the marines. You are going to help out with the new baby, or help with the move to that new job across the country. We have had a lot of practice; preschool, 1^st day of kindergarten, camp. The list goes on and on. It gets easier but it still is not easy enough and some times it makes me feel a little crazy.

 Letting go is like peeling an onion; there are many layers and peeling them back can make your eyes water. It too can stove you up.

Take care.

Roger

A list of all of the limerick submissions

Bev Sharritt

At the Ijamsville railroad tracks site,
I picked berries with Grandmother White.
In the briars and heat,
She instilled the mystery of delight.

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Chris Kozak

The crowds, the fatigue, and the heat,
Made biking the plains quite a feat.
But we were revived
By Rathmacher pie,
And pedaled 'til RAGBRAI was beat.

 

Berta Winiker · Friends with Noelle Fell and 4 others

A gift for the Barnard boys
Mom collected their culinary joys
into a cookbook recipes were bound
For when the urge to cook was profound
Will they, or not, embrace bok choy?

Roger Sharritt

Once again I get to be judge
No room for wiggle or fudge
But if you want to win
It won't be a sin
If you want to give me a nudge

 

Joyce Young

Dad taught us some colorful words,
While sneezing or milking his herds.
A belch of retreating
From all of the eating
Maggot meatballs and elephant turds.

 

Jim Hill ·

The lady was asked to make and deliver,

A Pumpkin Pie for Thanksgiving Dinner,

The sugar was forgot,

But the salt was not,

And the pie was hardly a winner.

 

Patty Rathmacher

Dear daddy Doyle was great with a plow
Rain on cut hay would sure make him frown
Milking Holsteins to him was a hoot
Lots of manure he did everyday scoop
Or should I say fresh pie from cows

 

Denae Skaar

I ran to the barn across the lot
That darn rooster would let me not
Grandpa’s boot went up its a$$
He disappeared with a feathered mass
That night, Grandma’s fried chicken hit the spot

Bill Hoover

The Sista's were all in 4-H
and sometimes my tummy would ache
could it be the yeast rolls
had taken their toll
or 4 pieces of warm wacky cake

 

Bill Hoover

Mix sugar eggs cream salt and ice
it doesn't sound tasty or nice
separate properly and spin
crank by hand such a din
Oh the joy fill my bowl at least twice

 

Judy Boggs

Those Do De Ho kids are a hoot
I don't know for which I should root
They all have a time
Putting words to a rhyme
Tween the maggots and turds. . . .think I'll scoot

 

Bev Sharritt

My Mom was a short order cook
But not in a diner or nook.
Eight kids round the table,
as soon as we were able,
She said, “Here’s the recipe book!”

 

Bonita Rogers Hoover

When snow would block 500 east .

 It was time to get out the yeast.

 Cinnamon rolls we would bake

or maybe coffee cake.

With milk from the tank we would feast!

 

Bonita Rogers Hoover

 It wouldn't be a Hoover Doo without a great big dinner
The pies desserts and such were better than state fair winner.
Aunt Doris's chicken and noodles .
Mashed potatoes (always oodles)"
I wondered why they were all thinner

 

Patty Rathmacher

 Baling hay I could get a great tan
Hot days in the parlor required a fan
Black and Whites gave milk a plenty
Twice each day in pounds; about 70
Butter by the case came from the Milk Man

 

Alison Heinhold Melley

 A memory from when I was two
In the garden with sis and the dew
A taste super sweet
It will never be beat
Snap peas some for me some for you

 

Cindy A. Pyle

Cathy would try her best
To put brother Bill to the test
As hard as she tried
The cookies she'd hide
He'd find them under dad's desk

 

Garrett Skaar

This Hoover Tradition's a hoot
Just like a 2nd grade toot
So as a rookie
I'll just ask for a cookie
And hope that I don't get the boot.

 

Charles Barnard

A young Charlie feeding the pigs he tries

Lugging the slop with grunts and sighs

The city slicker catches a sight of a sow

Climbing into a pen of another and learns how

A four hundred twenty pound pig can fly.

 

Bill Hoover

 I had the same problem first try
no shift enter had sent me awry
limerick writing is a chore
with Facebook as its core
technology sometimes make me cry

 

Bev Sharritt

 Brother Bill is as smart as a prof.
Of his rhyming brain we shouldn't scoff.
Meta-limerick 'bout keys
Penned with obvious ease?
Well, now you are just showing off!

 

Joyce Young

Today is the day he would be eighty-four.
He had two hollow legs to fill with still more.
Pork chops and gravy bread,
“Didn’t come out even” he said.
Plate spun and clattered causing ears to be sore.

 

Bonita Rogers Hoover

On my sway into town he would wave
Drive in and pick up Mr. Dave
An educated burger
French fries in the merger
Oh great, the time it would save!

 

Joyce Young

In from the barn at the counter he stood;
Mom had cut them in squares just as she should.
Pan of Mirro Joes,
Precisely in rows.
He gnawed fork in hand as a rabbit would.

 

Paula Sunderwirth Guernsey

 Our meatloaf was ground pork and ham.
Four sisters were a happy fam.
Casserole, broccoli,
And snowball cookies!
Dearest Mom, we still say, “Thank you, Ma’am.”

 

 

Judy Boggs

There once was a gal named Bonita
Who never had seen a fahita
But glasses clicked high
When she brought out her pie
To a crowd shouting. . . .Bon Appetita!!

Denae Skaar

Sunday’s after church, we’d go to KFC
To pick up a bucket of chicken with oh-so-much glee
We’d head out to the farm
To watch Peyton in all his charm
Only to fall asleep on the shag carpet by three

 

Patty Rathmacher

Old school Disney with Tinkerbell in flight
Mutual of Omaha's Wild Kingdom fright
Dad in his chair, kids on the couch
Brother Bill would punch and we'd scream "ouch"
We had popcorn for supper on Sunday night

 

Jake McKowen

 It was a cookie cook-off.
To Janie Sharritt my had did I doff.
I thought I would win,
But my hopes hit the bin,
When James said "I can't piss Mom off!"

 

Charles Barnard

 A bucket of corn flakes.

Then bacon and hotcakes.

Milk from the cooler.

Can he get any fuller.

For Uncles breakfast that's what it takes.

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Jim Rogers

There once was a whole clan of cousins
At Nettie we could number in dozens
in Sam's garden we would munch
on his tomatoes for lunch
in hopes he didn't notice the abductions

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Roger Sharritt

 I think you know what I mean
The competition is still quite keen
It is no joke
I have not misspoke
You guys are a writing machine

 

Pennie Hoover

Come and meet my sisters penny
Oh, my there are so many.
They're lots of fun
In snow or sun,
And, wonderful cooks you'll agree.

 

Bev Sharritt

Green beans growing, velvet and thick.
An eternity row, pick. Pick. Pick.
Work's good for the soul,
But my musings, on the whole:
Ben and Grace, aren't you feeling homesick?

 

Joyce Young

 The hay help was always so cute,
Sending bale after bale up the chute.
Hand-mixer set to whirl,
By the crush of a girl.
She delivered cookies to each batch of brute.

 

Janice Hoover Stilger

 He would drag her out of bed before dawn,
to the barn she would head with a yawn.
But what she loved most,
was the bacon egg sandwich on toast
that was delivered before the cows were all gone.

 

Roger Sharritt

 Hey you poets who still ride the fence
You too can add your two cents
It won't take long
Like writing a song
Tomorrow let judging commence

 

Patty Rathmacher

Not many stitches as kids cuz' their skin was so thick
But some, would eat too much pie and get sick
Cyndi the oldest then Jacob comes along
Renea , Lily and Amy always whistling a song
Could just one of you Rathmacher kids write a limerick ?

 

Janice Hoover Stilger

One of the Stilger kids heads to college this year.
Will the other two even shed a tear?
He hopes his mom’s on the level
Promising care packages of chocolate bars he will revel.
While dad celebrates with a beer.

 

From Amy
My mother insisted I write a limerick and rhyme

I thought it would be a waste of my summertime

I would get any kind of pie that Aunt bev could bake

So I might as well write for my dear mothers sake,

As long as I got an iPhone in the meantime?

 

Cyndi Rohlf

There once was a Rathmacher mother
Who favored her son like no other
Maybe football is more fun
Than daughter number one
No sister can live up to my brother

Grace Kozak

 Freshman year he was a boy on my floor
Who I grew to love and adore
So for his birthday I baked
A great big chocolate cake
Now we're together forevermore

 

Roger Sharritt

There once was a winner named Danielle
They said could write very swell
We thought she ought
But then maybe not
You see she's a newly wed. Oh well

 

Cindy A. Pyle

Milking cows was quite the chore
Up by five and out the back door
"Got Milk?" You ask
With your white mustache
Did you think it came from the store?!?

 

Kim Pyle

Too many holiday favorites to list.
If they aren't on the table, they're missed.
Honey twist bread made from dough.
But that Macaroni and cheese though...
Those cooks deserve to be kissed.

 

Joyce Young

Some pulls of a knob set the auger to rumble
Cow vittles called silage magically fall and tumble.
Rythm of each heap
'Bout put me to sleep
Arms wrapped ‘round the knees of a man tall and humble.

Joyce Young I know it is too late for the contest, but this just popped into my head while taking Sam to school this morning and so it must be shared.

Swiss steak for dinner or even French toast and bac’n
Scarce were the times we didn’t like what she was makin’
If there was a whine
As we began to dine
She pointed to a placard saying “kwitcherbelyakin”.

Bev Sharritt This just in from Cathy! She had some technical difficulties in posting.
It's been so amazin'
That we're all praisin'
The wonderful times we all had
With our great dad
Out on the hay we were raisin.